The weird thing is, whenever you go to talk to him or make conversation he starts getting really nervous and edgy. You need to understand something very important about this man. I’ve asked a few women why they think men get nervous around them, and some feel like the change in behavior is a deliberate attempt to turn her off, or to show he isn’t interested in her. When he’s talking to the bar man or waiter he’s Mr.
Why does he go from super confident and bold with his friends, to quiet and nervous around you? It seems so obvious to me as a man, but to women, it can come across as a man being unfriendly deliberately. Confidence, but when he starts talking to you he becomes Mr. Maybe his voice is even shaking he’s that nervous around you. I mean, he’s a good-looking guy and you want to get to know him.
You will only meet a handful of people this way, namely the few guys who are confident enough to walk up and introduce themselves.
To attract more attention, position yourself in the centre of the room where you are likely to be seen, and make an effort to engage with people not in your group.
Later in this course, you also hear from single women who discuss their views on dating shy guys and what they believe can make or break a date.
We don't ask you to change your core personality or become someone you’re not.
You will eventually find a match for two people who share a common interest, and can introduce them to each other. If you want to stand out from the crowd, do NOT ask these questions. Make the person you are with feel special, fascinating.
Just speak to him calmly and ask him general questions about life.
As you start to relax him into a conversation then you can take things a bit deeper and find out more about who he is.
As long as you’re engaged, and interested in what he has to say, he’s going to feel like he’s doing well and he’ll start to relax. The energy you feel from someone affects the dynamic of your interaction.
If he’s nervous and you start acting nervous, it’s going to double the nervous energy and will uncomfortable for both of you.